What Is Bullying?

What Is Bullying?

What is a Bully?

A bully is a person who hurts someone else on purpose. Anyone can be a bully, including a stranger, a friend, a brother or sister, a young person or an adult.

Bullying can take many different forms, including:
• hitting, kicking or pushing someone
• threatening to hurt someone
• stealing, hiding or ruining someone's things
• making someone do things he or she doesn’t want to do
• name-calling
• teasing
• insulting
• refusing to talk to someone (the “silent treatment”)
• spreading lies, gossip or rumors about someone

If you’ve been bullied, you’re not alone. Practically everyone has had an experience with a bully at some time. It’s very important to remember that it’s not your fault.

The Bully’s problems

Bullying is a result of the bully’s problems, not your own.
Common problems for a bully include:
• feelings of not fitting in
• problems at home, including divorce and abuse
• being bullied by parents, older siblings or others
• fear of being picked on
• wanting to seem tough
• feelings of anger, pain and low self-worth
• a need to control other people
• lack of caring about how others feel
• peer pressure from other bullies
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